Is it wrong for men to cry?

Of course it's not wrong for men to cry! Infact it is VITAL. If a person doesn't cry when they need to cry, 

then they are asking for trouble. And trouble will come. Depression may set in , and the person may become suicidal.... Or lash  out in anger toward others.... Or drink to excess ..... they may get ulcers or get cancer-yes cancer is indeed stress related or develop migraines.

Real men do cry: A real men is not afraid of what other people may say when he does cry and he doesn't not refuse to cry out of shame or fear of how others may see him. 

                         Crying doesn't mean that

                           a person is weak, but it

                         mean that a person has a 

                                            heart. 

I personally , am going to have a lot more respect for a male who does show his emotions, who does cry and express his feelings. He is then real. 



There are some extremely dangerous and nasty expressions :

• 'big boys don't cry'
• 'Crying is for sissies'
• 'What are you /a homo? '
• 'Only girls cry'/you play /cry like a girl/'don't be a girl'

It is not only important for men to cry , but them to allow their sons, daughters and wives and any other loved ones, to see them crying. This show the children that crying  is OK and normal and natural, which means that they will not be afraid to doing so themselves and they will not feel so insecure and uncomfortable around others who do . 

It also means that wives will not feel so embarrassed and uncomfortable when they themselves cry. 

It all start at very beginning, when some idiot tells a little boy :- "buckle up and be men, big boys don't cry". Don't ever believe tht LIE. We all CRY! There is NO shame in crying. No shame in tears. It is not wrong for men to cry. It is wrong for shame a men or small male child , for crying. That's extremely shameful, abusive and wrong. 

                      

                                                         -Sonam Bhati